Life is a very interesting game. It has many twists and turns. If you play it wisely you will survive or else you will die or make your life hell. To survive in this game we need to follow certain morals. These morals affect our life in a good way. Life isn’t that easy as it appears to be. We have to follow a path of morals to make our life better and amazing. But the problem is that we don’t value these morals. We consider them as bookish things and ignore them. And what happens next, our life becomes miserable. Only money cannot buy everything. We have to value some other things also. Below are ten things that we should value in life, but we actually don’t value them.
The tenth value in life that is important is honesty. It is the pillar of all the important values in life. Admitting to someone about your mistake or telling your parents that you did very bad in a particular field doesn’t makes you an honest person. A dishonest person always try to show others that he is perfect, if he actually isn’t. An honest person is one who admits to himself that he has done wrong and he is lacking in this field or there are many people who are better than him. Try to be an honest person. Try to find out what is your black side and start working on that. Doing this can not only make you an honest person but also makes you a good person.
The 9th important value is discipline. Discipline is a backbone of your character. Most of us takes discipline as a tough work and try to avoid it. We think that only an army man can be in discipline. And to be in discipline, one has to join army. But these ideas are stupid. Discipline is somehow related to responsibility. If a person is in discipline, he ensures that he completes his task with responsibility. No doubt he enjoys his life, but also takes care of the responsibility given to him. Also discipline aggrade your personality too. So, its better to be in discipline.
Respect is a thing that our parents teach us since our childhood. Greeting our elders, helping them and talking to them softly, these are the ways to respect others. Not only elders, we should respect youngers too. We should listen to what they are saying and if they wrong we should teach them in a friendly way, so that they consider us their friends. If we respect others only then we get respect from others. Nobody in this materialistic world is perfect. Respect simply means to adopt the best of all that is around us. This is another thing that we don’t value. We always consider ourselves superior than others whether it is the case of knowledge, wealth or anything. A person having such thinking always disrespects others. We should not do that. We all are equal. If we keep this idea in mind, then only we can respect others and make others respect us.
Patience creates a better state of mind, a clearer state of mind, for better decision making. Patience is the key to unlock the door to success. A patient person has a stable mind. An impatient person always rush for things. Most of the times, the work carried about by a mind which is always in the state of rush, is wrong or gets failed. A patient person is always successful in life. And can live his life happily. But in today’s growing world, everybody works in rush to complete their work as soon as possible. Remember completing your work on or before time is good but rushing only to just finish your work, degrades your performance. Also it can take more time than the deadline. Always try to be in patience.
Being jealous of someone or keeping grudges worsen a relation. To carry a relation for lifetime, there is only need of one thing, i.e. understanding. Understanding means to care for someone whom you love and to listen carefully what their problem is. But we don’t actually do that. If you are ready to understand and accept people and circumstances for what they are, you can gain control over it. Instead of questioning others, understand that they are doing their best and try to find out ways to help them out. Remember that a relationship is successful if there is mutual understanding in-between.
5. Don’t be Proud:
Most of us are very proudy for no reason. Infact, they find it against their rules to apologize to someone whom they have hurt. Don’t be a person like that. Swallow your pride to say you’re sorry. Being too proud to apologize is never worth it. Later you will realize that it’s you who only suffers. It’s good to be proud of ourselves but hurting others in proud is definitely not good. Its your relationship which suffers the loss. Try not to hurt people, and if you do so apologize to them for your mistake. Saying sorry for your mistake doesn’t make you inferior and other one superior. So change your mentality.
This is also one of the most important needs of our life. It’s an old saying “Health is wealth”. Without health, we cannot do our work and we cannot improve in life. So, health is the primary need for every one of us. One should give prime value to their health. If we have good health, then only we can grow in life. Without a good health, these morals and values are worthless. Unfortunately, most of us believe that the health can be brought from the GYM. It is the matter of regret that most of us do not realize that it is wrong. And later realize their mistakes. Hope that everybody will soon understand that they are doing wrong and realise the importance of health in life.
Always try to have a humble friend. Unlike a prideful friend, he is the only one who can help you when you need him. Humble people are more down to earth than arrogant people. A humble person is not reserved to himself and is friendly with everyone. He is comfortable with the fact that he is not perfect. Arrogance is generally always a negative thing. One shouldn’t be arrogant to others with no reason and should talk softly to youngsers and respect elders. Arrogance is not the solution to live life happily. Be humble to everyone, this will really help you to make your life better. Arrogance is no way to show everyone that you are superior to them.
Time is the most valuable thing on Earth. This is because everything is acquired in time. You could have food, clothing, fabulous homes – have all you want, but if you do not have time, it means – you have nothing. But we don’t value time. We are wasting it. By wasting it, we cannot acquire anything. By loosing time, we loose everything. Its truely said “Time is free, but its priceless. You can’t own it. You can’t keep it, but you can spend it. Once you have lost it, you can never get it back.” We should realise that time is like a diamond, its not everyone’s cup of tea to buy time. So try to value time and don’t waste it
The first of the most important things in life is love. Love is the greatest thing we can ever hope to give or receive. Love is only thing that can overcome so many of difficult times that we have faced in life. Love doesn’t always mean that fairy tale love. The way, in which you love your family and friends, you can love everybody. Mother Teresa said once said “If you judge people, you have no time to love them”. Love everybody as you love your family for no reason. You will yourself feel the same love for you in their eyes. Love causes less stress, less misunderstandings, less just about everything that is negative. Love only reap rewards – happiness, health, joy, peace and so much more that is positive. Love is just everything, it’s vast than the entire universe. Its lucky to have loved ones in your life. So, love them. Be sincere and honest to them. If you love them, they will love you too. So, love others to achieve their love.